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By Leslie Lindsay A curated newsletter on the literary life, featuring ‘4 questions,’ reading & listening recommendations, where to submit, more Leslie Lindsay|Always with a Book ~MUSINGS & MEANDERINGS~ Hello, Summer! Can you give me some feedback? I’ve been working on a visual narrative project for awhile. It’s not just memoir, which is personal, but involves poetry, childhood images (read: old photos) from a traumatic time. It’s cool. I like it. But it’s also emotionally grueling. Just as when we were kids, when we scribbled something or made mud pies, or whatever, we wanted feedback. Preferably ‘good’ feedback. We wanted, “WOW! I like how you ____.” We wanted someone to stop what they were doing and give it–and us–a little praise. Right? But sometimes, the people in our lives–lovely amazing partners, spouses, friends, critique partners–don’t always know what to say other than, “Great, I like it.” That’s not really helpful, is it? Here’s what is: What are your favorite aspects? Ask them to be specific. Is it the colors (if visual art), the way things …