By Leslie Lindsay
Am I a “winner” because I spent the majority of my “free time” (i.e. kid-free) whacking bushes? Well, perhaps I am. At least according to “The Winner’s Brain: 8 Strategies Great Minds Use to Achieve Succeess” by Drs. Fenske and Brown (Harvard Press, 2010) who suggests that motivation is one of those 8 strategies. Here’s how it works:
I am motivated to trim my bushes with an electric trimmer that my neighbor loaned me. You see, I was out over the weekend painstakingly trimming them with this large pair of scissors–you know the kind? It was taking forever, but in a weird way, it was kind of satisfying. I knew all about the electric version, it’s just that we don’t have one (ask my hubby, it’s his “rule.”) But then, after Mr. Chin showed me how….it started raining. Hard. We packed up and headed back in. Today–finally warm and sunny–I headed out to get the job done. I wanted to return the Bushwacker promptly as any good neighbor would do.
You see, not only was I utilizing “win factor” #2: motivation, but also #3: focus (more on that next week). Motivation, according the authors of the book is a force that, “Flows through you like phases of an electrical current. In Winner’s Brain, motiviation allows the individual to glide right over obstacles that often stop less determined people cold. It helps them push through challenges even when there is little external impetus to spur it on. Motivation primes the brain to see rewards even when they are a long way off, and, indeed, even where there are no guarantees those rewards will ever come.”
Here’s your chance to win a FREE copy of “The Winner’s Brain:” Be the first to write a quick comment on the blog about what motivates you to be a better parent. The first serious comment to come my way (based on time and date stamp) will be the winner…whose motivated?!? (sorry, couldn’t resist).
Thanks for being a loyal reader and good luck!
The Winner’s Brain: 8 Strategies Great Minds Use to Achieve Success by Jeff Brown, Mark Fenske and Liz Neporent (Mar 22, 2010