Musings & Meanderings: You know…you really should…plus imposter syndrome, what rejections teach, Amy Shearn on her new epistolary novel, DEAR EDNA SLOANE, shopping local (for books!), art + architecture
By Leslie Lindsay A curated newsletter on the literary life, featuring ‘4 questions,’ reading & listening recommendations, where to submit, more Leslie Lindsay|Always with a Book ~MUSINGS & MEANDERINGS~ You know, you really should… Recently, my husband said, “We need to get you some new life experiences, so you can stop writing about _________.” I was shocked. Appalled. _________ was who I was, what I stood for as a woman, mother, writer. Plus, I have plenty of ‘life experiences.’ Granted, not all of them were as traumatic as _______. This comment made me think about a lot of things: Am I nothing as a writer if I don’t write about ______? Must writers have capital T trauma to write? What about lower-case t trauma? What defines ‘trauma,’ anyway? What is ‘life experience?’ What is at our ‘core?’ How do our obsessions feed into our trauma, life experiences, and core? Are they the one and the same? Different? In what ways? No one wants to read about rainbows and unicorns, people with impossibly white teeth and …